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Stay Motivated in Your Marriage With These Tips

We became comfortable in our relationships Meet Your Sweet Review and forgot what we did in the beginning to even go on a date with our spouse. We further pushed further away from the special things we did and say to make our spouse fall in love with us. Your spouse does love you and fell in love with the person you were when you first met. Somewhere along the ways you forgot who that person was in you and your spouse. There's nothing wrong with any of the above traits. Each of them has its own appeal. As you mature, however, you begin using your powers of perception to examine deeper issues. For instance, you start to realize that the most beautiful woman you most admire may not be trustworthy. You most likely look beyond the superficial traits to answer the question, such as; is this woman right for me?

To illustrate: Imagine that you want to purchase a car. How thoroughly would you research it? Would you be concerned only about the outer appearance? Wouldn't it make sense to look deeper, perhaps learning as much as you could about the condition of the engine? Finding a mate is a much weightier issue than choosing a car. Yet, many who date don't look beyond the surface. Instead, they quickly point to the things they have in common: We like the same music. We enjoy the same activities. We agree on everything. But you need to go deeply, you need to discern what is inside her heart, her motives, her goals and her real personality. For example, rather than focusing on how much you agree on things, it might be more revealing to note what happens when you disagree. In other words, how does this person handle conflicts and disagreements? Does she insist her own way? Does she get irritated easily? Or is she interested in saving your relationship? Does she view marriage as a lifetime commitment?

Another serious things to consider: Is she manipulative, possessive, or jealous? Does she demand to know your every move? Many couples fight because of that, checking the other constantly. That's a real bad sign. Another important factor is; know yourself. What qualities do you think a woman will like on you? What better things you can offer? What are your strengths and your downfalls? The more you understand yourself, the better equipped you will be to find someone who will amplify your positive side rather than your negative side.

Suppose you want to buy a new pair of shoes. You go to the store and find a pair that catches your eye. You try on the shoes, only to find that much to your disappointment they're too tight. What would you do? Buy the shoes anyway? Or look for a different pair? Clearly, the better choice is to put the shoes back and look for others. It's similar with choosing a marriage partner. Over time, maybe more than a few attractive women may catch your eye. But not just anyone will do. After all, you want someone you'll be comfortable with, who truly fits your personality and your goals. Who will help you preserve your marriage not only for a couple of years but forever. Do you think you already found your woman? I hope so.

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