Rainbow - Pot of Gold

[Daisy Pricilla]

How do we make sure that our relationships come first in life Unlocking Transcendence Review and in doing so have a truly successful life. Perhaps I could give you an example. Last week I had a difficult situation around a piece of consultancy work I was doing. The details aren't important, but I stood to lose quite a lot of money. I was feeling a bit sorry for myself and wasn't looking forward to re-negotiating the deal because it triggered some of my insecurities.

I began to get stressed and anxious. Then I pulled back and asked myself - what is the most successful outcome I could have from this situation. The answer wasn't to win the deal even if my ego and bank manager would have wanted that., it was that the relationship with my client should improve, no matter what the material outcome was. I therefore concentrated only on the relationship in my conversation. I did need to be assertive, but not controlling. By avoiding judgment and aiming for a win/win situation the relationship did indeed get better. Even more significantly, the original deal was re-instated with grace and I didn't lose a penny.

Are you one of those who have a fear of being successful. As strange as it may sound, fear of success is quite common. It can manifest in a chronic holding back stance, or in a constant feeling that things are out of control. People with this fear find themselves distracted constantly, unable to focus on important tasks, bereft of the necessary motivation to continue on a winning path, and low on self confidence.

If you have a fear of success, you would do well to understand where it comes from. One of the primary reasons why people are afraid to get ahead in life is because they find change of any kind frightening. They much prefer to stay where they are, because it is familiar ground and therefore manageable. Drastic changes of any kind may lead to stress that such people consider themselves unable to tackle.

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