Think C.P.C. To Find Opportunity

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This has profound ramifications for why we don't change when we say we want to. No matter The Longevity Blueprint Review  how many times I may coach someone that there is nothing to fear when delivering a presentation, it makes no difference if the person believes there's plenty to fear. In other words, they continue to be fearful because they see something that isn't there or don't see something that is.

I know that resolving conflict is easy: Simply give up being right and making others wrong. Refusing to do so is the source of all wars, violence and unhappy relationships. But knowing this makes no difference when we are sure that we're right and the other person is wrong. In other words, when we are committed to seeing what isn't there. There are many people afraid to call someone and ask for a date, a job, a sale, etc. That fear is a product of seeing something that isn't there or not seeing something that is.

The other day, I asked a friend who is in the pool remodeling business why he was so successful. He said he makes dozens of cold calls per day. I asked if he was afraid to do so. "Why should I be?" he said. "I'm not getting any business from them now. The worst that can happen is that they'll say no and I still won't have any business from them." My friend was seeing what was there, not what wasn't.

Consider the possibility that if you're not getting what you want it's because some blind spot is keeping you from seeing the obvious. This is why we all need people in our lives who will tell us the truth about reality. Or at least a different version of the truth than the one we are believing. Then the really hard part occurs: We have to give up our belief so that we can see what's always been there. If we don't do that, we are doomed to keep repeating the same behavior over and over and over again, looking for something that isn't there or believing that something is there that isn't.

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