In an Argument, Time is Not on Your Side

[Amy Smart]

I recently heard from a wife who felt like she was the only one interested Language Of Desire Review in saving her marriage. She and her husband had been having problems for over a year and the husband had apparently become very tired of it because he had recently told the wife that he was seriously considering filing for a divorce in the near future. I will discuss this more in the following article.

The wife couldn't bear the thought of ending her marriage and uprooting her family. She said, in part: "He no longer listens to anything that I say. Every time I try to convince him to work with me to save our marriage, he changes the subject. The thing is, I strongly believe that we could turn our marriage around with just a little effort, but he won't budge. It's heartbreaking for me to sit and watch helplessly as I see everything I worked for walking out the door. What can I do?"

Boy, do I know how this feels. I was in the same situation. And what I learned was that the more "convincing" you try to do, the more resistant they become. This is especially true when the process goes on for a while. Here's the thing. If you've already tried everything in your power to convince your husband to save the marriage and to not walk away, sometimes you have to wait to approach this until after you've carried out another strategy. Sometimes, you need to delay having this conversation until you can adjust his attitude and resistance a little bit.

Sometimes, The Harder You Try To Convince Your Husband To Save Your Marriage, The More He Wants To End It: And, this is why you have to be slick about your strategy. Because I can't tell you how many husbands tell me that their wife literally will not take no for an answer and then proceeds to bombard him with all types of pleas and promises (which usually fall on deaf ears.) As he begins to get positive feedback, he'll likely begin to participate without your even having to ask or having to spell it out for him.

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