Chinese Association of Idaho State University (CAISU)
The Key To Your Success Lies Within You
We've all heard the saying: The only Hypnosis Live Review thing you can count on is change. It is true, and yet when you're in the big middle of the horror, you can't claw you're way out. Even if you're one of those that believe there's a reason for everything, when something so life changing occurs, it's hard to see a lesson.Have you found yourself in the same situation more than once? You find yourself in the same long, droning conversations with your children or your spouse, saying the exact same thing to each other over and over. Or, you are in the same dead-end job that you found yourself in multiple times before. "How did this happen AGAIN?" you ask. Patterns emerge when you aren't paying attention.
If you find yourself in the same situations over and over again, chances are you are playing a significant role, even it if appears on the outside that something happened TO YOU. It feels sometimes as if the event is THRUST upon you without your wanting it to occur. But if there is a pattern to the same emotional or spiritual distress of the scenarios of your life, only you can break the cycle. Some things ARE your fault, and it might be time to wake up and smell the roses.
The next time you find yourself saying, "It's not my fault" you may need to instead ask the question, "What did I do to get in this place once again?" This would be the time to figure out what you've done to create the situation you're in. I know for some who read this, it will be a radical shift in reality, and it may even make you angry to hear me say it. However, change occurs when we're willing to eyeball ourselves in a mirror rather than looking at the world through a magnifying glass. Taking responsibility of your life, and the change you create, means not placing blame on anybody or anything for your life.
Most people have something they want to change about themselves or the world around them. That's actually the easy part - seeing who you want to be in the future. We visualize a thinner person, more organized surroundings, or someone who regularly goes to bed at 10am just to wake up bright and early to hit the gym before heading off to work. In our mind's eye, it's so clear what change we want to make. And in fact, have the INTENTION to make.
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