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A Deeper Look at Defenses: Andy and Julie
Chores: Why am I always the one scrubbing The Ex Factor Guide Review the toilet? Find an equal distribution of labor, or a distribution of labor that works for your relationship. Some folks are happy with one person doing the cleaning and one doing the cooking. Some are happy with one person working and one person doing everything else. Who knows? Different strokes for different folks. Find a way that suits you both as a couple.
Habits: My Way or the Highway. Those habits that seem cute today, might not be so cute two years down the matrimony highway. So if it annoys you that he always keeps the toilet seat up, ask him to try to stop it. Keep in mind old habits die hard. So learn to work around quirks like this. In my case, the toilet seat 'broke' and after it was fixed, it wouldn't stay up! I won't recommend this.
You can use another bathroom or get some device that automatically puts the seat down. Shared Values- You might not have everything in common, but when rubber meets the road, having a similar set of shared values will help hold you both together through the rocky seasons of life. Shared values add depth to a marital relationship, and help you grow together as you pursue those things that are most important to you both.
Trust- Is your lady someone that you trust with your whole heart? Before you pop 'the question,' be sure that the woman that you are about to marry is someone that you can share everything with. If you don't feel comfortable sharing your life with this woman currently, then it is doubtful that you will feel even more inclined to share after you've tied the knot.
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