Chinese Association of Idaho State University (CAISU)
3 Tips For Having Huge Success With Dating and Attracting Women
Attaching too much meaning to a date is a huge mistake and Text Chemistry Review virtually always an in accurate assessment of our own life situation...When we attach too much meaning to something that we want we often buy into the notion that, if we don't get it, then it means we are in someway not okay...This, in turn, creates a tension that hinders us from being relaxed and in the moment...
For some reason we can often lock into the thinking that this is a 'boom or bust' opportunity and if we don't take advantage of it another one might never come along. This is hardly ever the case and the truth of the matter is there are lots of opportunities to meet people in this day and age...who knows...something much better may be just round the corner...
Rather than attaching a ton of meaning to a date try releasing and letting go of any expectations. Still have an idea of what you would like to happen and keep your standards high but let go of all your expectations. When you have little or no expectations you have nothing to lose and you will feel a lot more relaxed about the whole thing. If you keep your standards high and do your best at the same time, then you will go into that blissful place where the pressure is off, you're at your best and it all starts to feel rather effortless...
So you think you've found 'the one' or at least one you really like and are interested in getting to know a lot better. You start imagining taking them home to meet your parents, going on holiday together, settling down, perhaps even kids... Whoa...slow down there...By prematurely projecting into the future like this you've just bought into an illusion (albeit a nice one) that will actually seriously affect your chances of ever making it a reality... In truth women probably do this more than men but men still do it frequently...
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